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and you think I dress weird

Date: October 18, 2002 | 11 Shaban 1423 Hijriah
Subjects: culture
Today while I was out I saw this guy who had his lip, nose, and ears pierced multiple times. I think he also had his eyebrow pierced. I've never seen anybody with so many piercings. Whenever I see people pierced in odd places the first thought that comes to my mind is ouch!! The other thought that always crosses my mind when I see someone with a pierced nose is what happens if you need to blow your nose or you sneeze? I guess I'm just squeamish, but body piercing is something I don't get.

Later I saw a guy with a foot-tall mohawk dyed purple.
~ Posted by Al-Muhajabah, a member of the reality-based community, at 08:26 PM

Comments

Ismail said: Total comments: 2  

Salaam...

I was a punk rocker before I becamse Muslim, abuot 10 years ago. These people are looking for something and many of them are smarter than the average person.

~ Posted at October 18, 2002 09:41 PM | Comment Permalink
moderator Al-Munaqabah said: Total comments: 996   gold stargold stargold stargold stargold star

As-salaamu alaykum,

Thanks for visiting my blog and leaving a comment, Ismail! I wouldn't be surprised if you were right, it's just that as I said, I'm too squeamish to like the thought of puncturing myself like that!

I was friends with some punk rocker wannabes in high school, that was my crowd. How times have changed, lol.

W'as-salaam alaykum

~ Posted at October 19, 2002 01:44 PM | Comment Permalink
Cindy said: Total comments: 63   gold stargold stargold stargold stargold star

lol... some piercings look cool (like eyebrow, tongue, etc.), but when it's too much, it looks freaky. I've seen people with way too many piercings on their face... it doesn't look pretty.

I'm open to creativity though, lol. But it does look painful... *gulp*

~ Posted at October 19, 2002 08:01 PM | Comment Permalink
Hani said: Total comments: 4  

Ismail is right. Many of these people who appear to dress weird and even ghoulish are actually quite intelligent and very sensitive and caring people if one tries to stop and listen to them.

They are trying to search for something...

Some "thing"...

...some One that we all are searching for...

Huuu...



Allah's blessings and peace on Prophet, his Family, and all his Companions

~ Posted at October 20, 2002 12:32 PM | Comment Permalink
moderator Al-Munaqabah said: Total comments: 996   gold stargold stargold stargold stargold star

Cindy expressed exactly what I was trying to say. I see lots of people with various types of piercings and it's not a problem, even if I'm too squeamish to do it myself. But this one guy... it was just too much. Moderation in all things, right wink

~ Posted at October 20, 2002 12:49 PM | Comment Permalink
Hani said: Total comments: 4  


Sister,

I can completely empathize with what you are saying and I hope you didn't interpret what I wrote as meaning that we shouldn't be turned off by these people's alternative forms of dress and sometimes behaviour...it is natural to do so and part of the deen...

But I just wanted to point out, along with brother Ismail, that if we were to sometimes try and look past the ghoulish exterior of some of these people, we might be pleasantly surprised to find what is there...

And then other times we might not...

One has to be careful. Sometimes what we see is most definately what we will get...

You never know...

Gotta be careful...


fi amanil-Lah,
Hani

~ Posted at October 20, 2002 07:28 PM | Comment Permalink
moderator Al-Munaqabah said: Total comments: 996   gold stargold stargold stargold stargold star

You know, I'm coming to think that we all pretty much agree, we're just approaching it from different angles. It is definitely wrong to reject someone just because of their appearance. Who knows? They may be this close to accepting Islam while somebody else that seems more "respectable" will never do so. It reminds me of the story in Surah Abasa.

May Allah SWT guide us all to live according to His commands.

~ Posted at October 20, 2002 09:25 PM | Comment Permalink
Hani said: Total comments: 4  

Bismil-Lah

Thank you, sister. The reference to Surah Abasa is most relevant and contains many lessons for us to learn from, and unfortunately, the ayats in the beginning are sometimes grossly misinterpreted by various Muslims who foolishly submit them as proof that our Prophet sinned.

Never. Astaghfirul-Lah. NEVER!

May Allah bless him and grant him peace. The Prophet Muhammad *never* sinned. No Prophet did. They are masum. Innocent. They are completely protected from that.

One may see Qadi 'Iyad's Ash-Shifa as a thorough reference on this point.

The Islamic ideal of patience and tolerance for everyone is exemplified in Complete Perfection in the life story of the Master of Creation, our Prophet Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace.

At every single moment of his blessed life, our Prophet was *constantly* forgiving and overlooking the countless faults of those around him. Every single moment.

When he did act in "anger", it could have only come from anger for Allah's sake and never tainted by ego and nafs. Never.

So this is the lofty ideal we strive for...

It's not easy. I for one cannot lay claim to it.


ma'as-Salaama,
Hani

~ Posted at October 21, 2002 03:21 AM | Comment Permalink
Ismail said: Total comments: 2  

There's a guy I worked with who is THIS close to becoming Muslim, and he's pretty scary looking...just like I was. I had dreadlocks when I became Muslim in 1992! .

Wasalaam
Ismail

~ Posted at October 22, 2002 02:51 PM | Comment Permalink
moderator Al-Munaqabah said: Total comments: 996   gold stargold stargold stargold stargold star

Mashallah, that's really cool big grin May Allah SWT open his heart to accept Islam.

By the time that I reverted, I was pretty normal but I definitely used to hang out with the punkers and outcasts back in high school, lol!

Personally I think that people who are willing to be visibly different can have what it takes to be a Muslim in a world that sometimes seems hostile to Muslims and Islam. There's a hadith that runs something like "Islam began as something strange and will end as something strange. So good tidings to the strangers"

Good tidings to all the strangers out there!

~ Posted at October 22, 2002 08:11 PM | Comment Permalink
Hani said: Total comments: 4  


as-Salaamu 'alaykum,

You know, br. Ismail, if he were to convert, he would not be required to cut his dreadlocks. They are permissible...Daleel can be furnished if absolutely necessary...but considering there are different types of dreadlocks, there might be some reservations on the type that are permissible...

For instance, in college I took two classes with this BRILLIANT young man who was some kind of a whiz on world religions and philosophies...it was always captivating to hear him speak during class...he had dreads...the REAL kind...i once sat behind him in class and he STUNK...those dreads were nasty when you were up close and saw them face to face...

Gave a new name to our university...

P.U.

But seriously, the dude was brilliant.

I think about him from time to time...I wonder where he is...maybe on some vision quest at some sweat lodge out west...and you know what those involved...he was into that type of thing...


ma'as-Salaama,
Hani

~ Posted at October 23, 2002 06:56 PM | Comment Permalink
Yumna said: Total comments: 39   gold stargold stargold star

I always wondered about the nose blowing as well ... I've got a few friends that have their noses pierced, my sister-in-law included but I can't fathom how they manage to NOT get irritated with the piercing especially when it comes to blowing their nose.

Br Ismail - If would be excellent if the brother accepts Islam, Masha-Allah.

~ Posted at October 25, 2002 12:42 AM | Comment Permalink
Seifullah said: Total comments: 1  

Salaam Alaikum
I had dreadlocks when I reverted to Islam in July of last year until a brother informed me that I could not keep them so I cut them off.
I recently decided that because I couldnt find anything written that I was going to twist them back up. I would really like to know what anyone thinks of this.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.


Salaam Alaikum Seifullah

~ Posted at June 5, 2003 04:45 PM | Comment Permalink
moderator Al-Munaqabah said: Total comments: 996   gold stargold stargold stargold stargold star

As-salaamu alaykum brother Seifullah,

As a general rule, there are no restrictions on hairstyle in Islam. However, one issue with dreadlocks is that they seem to be part of the Rastafarian religion. Muslims should avoid styles that are part of another religion.

You may wish to investigate the role of dreadlocks in the Rastafarian religion and think about whether your style resembles that of Rastafarians. If you're being mistaken for a Rastafarian or would be by people who are familiar with that religion, then it would be best for you to adopt a different hairstyle instead.

A second issue is ghusl. Women are allowed to keep their hair plaited for ghusl but it appears that men are not. It would be best for you to consult a scholar about this issue. There are several sites online that take questions and provide answers, including:

Islam Q&A
Understanding Islam
Islam Online

I hope this helps, inshallah.

~ Posted at June 5, 2003 09:17 PM | Comment Permalink

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